Update xeus-cpp dependency from clangdev 16 to 17

[anutosh491]

This PR fixes the make && make install build failures while using clang 17.0.4 and llvm 17.0.4. The main changes here are inspired by (llvm/llvm-project@b8e5f91 and llvm/llvm-project@8b1771b) as
ExecutorAddr was introduced in as an eventual replacement for JITTargetAddress and ExecutorSymbolDef was introduced as a
replacement for JITEvaluatedSymbol in the following patches.

[vgvassilev]

Do you have any clue why things fail on osx?

[JohanMabille]

We probably need to use clang 17 rather than cxx-compiler which pulls clang 16

[anutosh491]

Looks like clang_osx64 17 is not available yet ( latest is 16.0.6). So we'll maybe have to wait until the switch happens to clang 17 on osx. @vgvassilev

[anutosh491]

I think clang_osx 17 is now available (conda-forge/clang-compiler-activation-feedstock#113) but we might have to wait for it to be enabled as the default compiler (https://github.com/conda-forge/conda-forge-pinning-feedstock/blob/cbccb41e313c017c1ad15db6c287e87aa57d54dd/recipe/conda_build_config.yaml#L18)

[vgvassilev]

LLVM 17 seems broken. It has valgrind issues discovered by CppInterOp. We should probably not update before fixing them: https://github.com/compiler-research/CppInterOp/actions/runs/7561682890/job/20590508932#step:26:11915

[vgvassilev]

That's not needed anymore. It will be handled on the CppInterOp side. Do you mind closing this one?

[anutosh491]

Yeah sure it makes sense. let's close this for now !