Fix SDL-related issues

[qiuguohua]

1.Fixed editbox input send message twice
2.Fixed when the window is hidden to send message twice 3.Fixed unresponsive right mouse button

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Changelog

https://github.com/cocos/3d-tasks/issues/17587#event-10241871963
https://github.com/cocos/3d-tasks/issues/17540#event-10229642660
https://github.com/cocos/3d-tasks/issues/17542#event-10227622750

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Interface Check Report

This pull request does not change any public interfaces !

[bluesky013]

Are we considering using NSWindow consistently and having gfx maintain the CAMetalLayer?

[qiuguohua]

@cocos-robot run test cases