[Table]: Add support for controlled selection state in Table

[anuraghazra]

Right now Table selection state is managed by the Table component itself and it only exposes the onSelectionChange function to detect the selection change but doesn't provide any way for us to control the state programatically.

Usecases:

• Default selected table rows
• Deselecting selected rows after doing some operation
  • eg: bulk updating table rows by opening a modal and clicking "apply" and once the operation is done the rows should get deselected

https://razorpay.slack.com/archives/CMQ3RBHEU/p1721650963801319?thread_ts=1721645351.109379&cid=CMQ3RBHEU

FYI, Same behaviour with isDisabled, we may need it to be controlled to?